Thanks for the help Mitch but it has gone from bad to worse.
We have changed the strapping on both ends.  We are several hundred miles apart.  We only have the attachment as a record of our previous IC706 link up.
Name   Value
Company   Microbit
Product   1258
PID   4
Version   6
HW   7
Software   2.85
Bootloader   1.10
Compiler   4.6.2
Build   Mar 16 2015 10:44:33
ROM/RAM   475660/41948
ETH-RAM   2944 (max 3kB)
USB-RAM   15348 (max 16kB)
Battery-RAM   4
ResetSrc   0 [3]
Last WD Reset   9
Uptime   0 Days, 0 Hours, 30 Mins, 57 Secs
     
Serial number   5344
MAC address   00:1e:fd:01:8b:80
IP address   192.168.1.227
Netmask   255.255.255.0
Gateway   192.168.1.1
DNS   192.168.1.1
Wi-Fi network   module not present
Settings
Unit ID (Banner)   Control IC-706
DHCP   0
IP   192.168.1.227
Netmask   255.255.255.0
Gateway   192.168.1.1
Dns server   192.168.1.1
Eth-type   5
IP-interface   0
Web page user   
Web page pwd   
Web page user(saving)   
Web page pwd(saving)   
Program mode   2
Control panel   1
Sip password   
Sip contact   174.97.233.194
Auto connect   0
Audio quality   2
Audio dual-rx   0
Audio left/right ch swap   0
Codec out gain   250
Codec inp gain   18
Codec inp HPF Hz   3
Codec inp preamp   1
Codec inp attenuation   0
COM0 baudrate   19200
COM0 data bits   8
COM0 stop bits   1
COM0 parity   0
COM0 Program mode 3 char timeout   2
Use USB Com Port as COM0   0
COM1 mode   7
COM1 baudrate   9600
COM1 data bits   8
COM1 stop bits   1
COM1 parity   0
COM1 rts/cts   0
COM1 terminator (hex)   00
Use USB Com Port as COM1   1
COM2 mode   0
COM2 baudrate   38400
COM2 data bits   8
COM2 stop bits   1
COM2 parity   0
COM2 terminator (hex)   00
Use USB Com Port as COM2   0
COM3 mode (USB-COMFSK)   10
UDP cmd port   13002
UDP audio port   13001
SIP port   13000
Web server port   80
Telnet server port   23
Rx jitter buffer size   12
Rx jitter delay   8
Audio packet size (ms)   20
RTP tx mode   0
Disable audio tones   0
Audio tones -db [70-0]   30
IP identification (morse)   0
Full duplex   0
PTT-off mute delay   0
IP Type-of-Service (dec)   0
Yaesu power-on/off   0
UDP antenna-switch port   13010
UDP cmd min-data-size   0
Use common network settings   0
Check interval   0
DDNS Host name   0
Own host name   
Username   
Password   
Enable   1
Speed wpm [0/10-40]   0
Iambic   2
Paddle reverse   0
Weight [25-40]   30
Side tone hz [0,300-1500]   600
Side tone -db [50-0]   40
Lf delay ms [0-500]   0
Key delay ms [0-250]   0
PTT activated by Keyer   0
PTT tail delay ms [0-999]   0
Speed pot min wpm [5-99]   10
Speed pot max wpm [5-99]   40
IN0 mode   1
OUT0 mode   0
OUT0 mode   0
OUT1 mode   0
OUT1 mode   0
OUT2 mode   0
OUT2 mode   0
USB RTS as PTT   0
USB DTR as CW   3
Enable ping watchdog   0
IP address to ping   
Ping interval (seconds)   300
Startup delay (seconds)   300
Failure count to reboot   3
1: Name (SSID)   
1: Password (PSK)   
2: Name (SSID)   
2: Password (PSK)   
3: Name (SSID)   
3: Password (PSK)   
4: Name (SSID)   
4: Password (PSK)   
5: Name (SSID)   
5: Password (PSK)   
6: Name (SSID)   
6: Password (PSK)   
7: Name (SSID)   
7: Password (PSK)   
8: Name (SSID)   
8: Password (PSK)   
Status
Name   Value
Control panel   ON
Radio   ON
Connection status   OK
SIP status   Connected/transfering
Last SIP error   None
RTP status   Excellent(60)
UDP cmd status   OK(45)
SIP command timeout   0
Rx Jitter buffer size   12
Rx Jitter delay   8
Dual Rx   0
Current audio packet size   20
Current audio quality   2 - Linear 16 bits 8 kHz
SIP Out port   13000
SIP In port   13000
Audio Out port   13001
Audio In port   13001
Command Out port   13002
Command In port   13002
External SIP In port   13000
External Audio In port   13001
External Cmd In port   13002
Other party   174.97.233.194
Input 0   High
Input 1   High
Input 2   High
Output 0   High
Output 1   Low
Output 2   Low
DNS status   OK, remoterig.com = 213.180.92.20
Active profile   IC-706
The manual doesn't address problem.  The Control (K3-Mini) and Remote (K3S) are connected and we only hear the tone indicating some problem.  How can we determine our IP addresses? 
Are you where we can reach you by phone?
We have run out of time for today.
Thanks in advance for your help.
Glen